DNA, not in anyway flaming you, I'm simply saying that if you feel the need to concern yourself with what other people have been saying, and that they must consider how other people who aren't actually part of the conversation will read it, then you must have at least the smallest amount of an inflated self important, since, again, it doesn't concern you.
Also, may I just say, you cannot assume things about me with only one example. You've don't this twice now, in a week.