I like this girl and can probably go out with her. But i'm not good with this stuff. And am a nervous wreck. Should I? She goes to my church. But i'm not supposed to date. I can sneak but, bros go there too. Thoughts?
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Part of life is rebelling, and sometimes you have to do what you believe (that deosnt mean stealing or breaking into cars or whatever, just to make myself clear) and if you really like this girl and you think a great relationship could come out of it, ask her to the movies with some friends and keep it goin! If not, then i wouldnt risk a whole lot for just another girl.
The key is to LISTEN to her, get to know her a little better. Now, if you truly like this girl, you will defend her against your parents and convince them to let you date. Thats what I do. Works like a charm! 
Also, don't cuss at her, listen, and don't cut her short, always compliment her, and NEVER EVER EVER tell her even her slightest of flaws, and don't hate on her friends. Hope I helped. If you need any advice, don't be afraid to PM me.
Also, don't cuss at her, listen, and don't cut her short, always compliment her, and NEVER EVER EVER tell her even her slightest of flaws, and don't hate on her friends. Hope I helped. If you need any advice, don't be afraid to PM me. Very true UB
One thing i forgot to ask tho, does she like you? If I were you, its not your parents letting you date thats the big problem, its how does she feel about you.
One thing i forgot to ask tho, does she like you? If I were you, its not your parents letting you date thats the big problem, its how does she feel about you.
Your church bans you from dating? Gee. Now would be a good time to become an athiest.
I don't know what else your church is forcing down your threat (But I have quite a few educated ideas, based on having gone through all that myself.) But there is NOTHING wrong with dating... >_>
I don't know what else your church is forcing down your threat (But I have quite a few educated ideas, based on having gone through all that myself.) But there is NOTHING wrong with dating... >_>
Señor Noobnerd said:
Yeah the girl just goes to his church, I doubt the church would be against anything like that, its just your parents thinking you are to young right?
Yea. But thing is, I can't go out on dates. :/ Thanks for advice so far though!
If I were you I would just ask her to go to the movies, like MK63 said. But I suggest you take her by YOURSELF. Not with friends or anything. Hopefully she will have fun, and you guys can start to "date". If it doens't work out it's not a big deal.....your only 13, so it's not like this is the only girl your ever gonna like.
INFERNAPE said:
Haha I knew you would get here soon enough!
Well at 13, its generally akward to go out on dates by yourself, at least the first few. I would suggest maybe go with a few other people, but sit next to her and TALK to her, shes not an alien after all. Are there any mutual friends? So it wouldnt be so akward.
Also who said your parents have to know, just say so and so invited you to the movies and could you drop me off or watever, its not rocket science.
I know, but my parents don't even buy that. haha They tag along most times. But i'm gunna try if I go out with her. It's just it'll be easy for my bros to find out about it, and one of them is the biggest loudmouth ever. :/ haha I'll probably ask her, we'll see.
hey, i sent u a private message, i hope you like the advice!
How do you know so much about girls when (to my knowledge) you haven't gone out with anyone yet?? Oh well, it's great advice regardless.
Hmmm...I would say go for it if you are in the mood for a rebellion and if your parents don't watch you like a hawk.
If not, then...ya know my answer.
And a piece of advice from my personal experience:
AVOID LOUDMOUTHS AT ALL COSTS!!!
Hmmm...I would say go for it if you are in the mood for a rebellion and if your parents don't watch you like a hawk.
If not, then...ya know my answer.
And a piece of advice from my personal experience:
AVOID LOUDMOUTHS AT ALL COSTS!!!
you can PM me if you need help
I’m just wondering, how much time do you actually spend talking to this girl? Do you chat her up on the cell, or just drool over her at church? I hate to sound like a guidance councilor here, but communication is the key. If she likes your convo, then the rest is easy. If the two of you can’t seem to find anything to say to each other, then you’ve got nuttin to sweat over…move on. =)
My idea is to find a big organised event (concert,parade,ect.) and have some of your friends and some of her friends tag along. That is an easy way to have people interact with one of the opposite gender. This technically isn't A date, so you can still obey the rules of your parents, or church, or whatever.
(P.S: I've never been on a date before, but it worked for my friends.)
(P.S: I've never been on a date before, but it worked for my friends.)
DudeHoofHearted, please do not revive dead topics. If the most recent post is 2 weeks old or older, please do not post in the thread.
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