*high-fives in maple syrup* What about the other points, though? You can't complain someone's ignoring you and then ignore someone yourself. :L
So you didn't know, wow Vom, I thought we were friends...
Joking about Canada aside, here's what I've got for the other reasons.
She's been trying to get on people's good sides from the beginning of the game by flattering them at the first chance she gets
I've only been flattering specific people because what I've been saying is genuine, with people like Zone it's because I played with him in a previous game and was giving my thoughts on what happened at that time since NP was asking, so that was purely just because it was relevant.
With others I didn't really think there was any harm to it since I was trying to be active (since I knew that was an issue in the last game I played, plus that was the time when I was ending BB4 and had activity issues) and being a new player who was worried about people attacking me for not knowing how to play the game "well enough", I wanted to be nice to the people I knew or recognized (people like NP, Gekki, Drac) so I wouldn't have to worry about that issue in the future since I'm close to them outside the game.
A lot of her posts are paragraphs long that could be shortened to a few sentences, fluffing the thread
I didn't even realize this was a bad thing to do. I thought I had to spend the extra sentences explaining myself because I never got a response from jplap, and when I tried to explain myself he would always respond with some kind of "How does that work?" or "I don't get what you're saying". I thought that was just something I had to do in-game.
Tunnel on jplap even after recognizing said tunnel was bad/going nowhere
Overly worried about how she's coming off (as shown by point #1) but further evidenced by her constant apologizing for being new and her rushing in to clear her name after being called out on not jumping on the Nick wagon.
That being said hopefully I've cleared up why these have been issues you've noticed with me.
'I wouldn't do this' or 'I'd do this if' statements are very rarely accepted as a reason in themselves since they inherently bring the entire point to a WIFOM. I get that you're more worried as a new player, but if you think in the town's best interests instead of your own there should be nothing to worry about.
I've spent all of my time thinking "I need to appear town so no one suspects me of being scum, because I don't want to lead people away from actually finding scum because I said something stupid". I've thought people would genuinely be angry at me if they spent all the time and effort suspecting me only to be lied to when I flip town and waste that effort.
The issue isn't that you pushed it, it's that you pushed it the way you did even after there were better options and it was clear jplap wasn't going to keep answering your questions.
I believed that continuing to pressure jplap would either cause him to leak information about being scum, or make people in the game believe he's town. I thought of how bb did a play in a previous game where he outright claimed I was scum, I freaked out, and my response led him to believe I was town. I didn't want to say anything about my intentions in thread, because if jplap saw it he'd immediately know what I was trying to do and it wouldn't work.
However I kept pushing past the point where people believed he was town, and that was because I genuinely believed he was scum and thought he was hiding things. (I've changed my mind at this point.) I tunneled too hard and that was a genuine mistake of not knowing how tunneling people works and knowing when to stop rather than trying to actually contribute.