Secretsof2113 said:
The trading council is an advisory body. WE DO NOT TELL PEOPLE HOW TO MAKE THEIR TRADES! We don't sit and breathe behind their necks and tell them what they have to do. These rules are there so everyone knows what should be done. We say the ref rule is to be followed, but do we know who is following it? No. We don't have that kind of power, nor do we want that kind of power. The middle man service isn't something to be abused. I believe I mentioned it there. If anything, we'd rather not do it unless we absolutely have to.
Here, how about this. How about you write up a set of rules and post them here. We'll see if you can make a perfect list that EVERYONE agrees with. Put your money where your mouth is (because it's obvious that talking behind a screen name is what you do best) and then we'll talk.
That's nonsense! You ARE NOT ADVISORY when you FORCE people to follow YOUR rules and conditions.
Your ref rule
------> REQUIREMENT <------- does not qualify under either of the three responsibilities the trading council has:
1. Management (thread set-up, bumping, rep thread rules, etc)
2. Review (if someone scammed in a trade, if someone went back after an address exchange, punishments for said offenses)
3. ADVISORY (posting notices that give people suggestions on with whom they should trade, where, and how)
Let's draw a nice comparison. Let's say my mom forced me to take my cards outside every day and set them on the porch before we left. Despite the fact that they're my cards and she has enough other things to worry about, I obey so as to be able to continue to use our house. One day, we all come home and the cards are gone. It is concluded that a thief took them. The sad thing is I'm not shocked. I have been laying my cards out every day just asking for them to be taken. Now is the thief the only one to blame? Yes, they took them, but maybe if they hadn't been placed before them on a silver platter the person who grabbed them may have kept walking.
So, mom, where on the porch would you like them placed?
And no, I simply can't say all the things on here that I say on there. Otherwise I may get in trouble for hurting someones feelings. Trust me, I would be MORE than happy to repeat all of it if I could.
Oh, and for starters, I would simply make it that "it is suggested that the person with less refs send first" instead of "you must" or however you phrase it.