RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
Some of this advice is funny lol
thank u all but school isnt an option ged is for me
Some of this advice is funny lol
thank u all but school isnt an option ged is for me
dropped outta high school now i feel like crap
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RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
I had some problems like you, but I would never think about dropping out. By dwelling on dropping out, you can never move on. You don't exactly need a high school diploma, you can still get a decent job without one.
- You need ignore people who laugh at you. It's not that hard. Ignore them and they'll stop picking on you.
- Make friends. You could even make friends with teachers. They could've helped you in these tough times.
- Don't cut yourself. That never gets you anywhere.
Look, dropping out isn't the end of the world. Pick up the pieces and move on.
I had some problems like you, but I would never think about dropping out. By dwelling on dropping out, you can never move on. You don't exactly need a high school diploma, you can still get a decent job without one.
- You need ignore people who laugh at you. It's not that hard. Ignore them and they'll stop picking on you.
- Make friends. You could even make friends with teachers. They could've helped you in these tough times.
- Don't cut yourself. That never gets you anywhere.
Look, dropping out isn't the end of the world. Pick up the pieces and move on.
Ah okay... Now we know those mental disorders it'll be a lot easier. Since you don't seem in the position to cheer yourself up or able to place yourself above the disorders, I would advise you to visit a psychiatrist.
I know what it is to deal with mental disorders, but you know, you have a future. Think about the effects if you don't finish high school. Yes I know there are other ways to avoid high school and still get a good job. But... there's something called a society. You have to learn to live in it, by sitting in your room in the dark won't help you much. School is a great way to learn how to behave social and prepare for a future life...
It's your life, you have to make your life a good life. Mental disorders are just illusions in your mind. You are able to get rid of them, talk to a psyhiatrist if necessary. But don't waste your life, that would be a shame... Get up and take a step, walk forward...
I know what it is to deal with mental disorders, but you know, you have a future. Think about the effects if you don't finish high school. Yes I know there are other ways to avoid high school and still get a good job. But... there's something called a society. You have to learn to live in it, by sitting in your room in the dark won't help you much. School is a great way to learn how to behave social and prepare for a future life...
It's your life, you have to make your life a good life. Mental disorders are just illusions in your mind. You are able to get rid of them, talk to a psyhiatrist if necessary. But don't waste your life, that would be a shame... Get up and take a step, walk forward...
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
It may sound "funny", it works. I don't think you are seriously even considering any of the advice given. Or even plan to. Crying out for attention?
INFERNAPE112892 said:
It may sound "funny", it works. I don't think you are seriously even considering any of the advice given. Or even plan to. Crying out for attention?
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
One other thing is something that you really can't get help with... You need to become social. Life is hard without friends. Definitely go to pokemon tournaments. As long as you act normal and socialise since you have common interest, you will make friends in no time. This boost in confidence may make you reconsider the decisions you make. Being sad is almost an illness, it will always affect your judgement.
Yh, I just can't stress enough how much confidence is needed. It will help you in interviews, friends, love etc.
One other thing is something that you really can't get help with... You need to become social. Life is hard without friends. Definitely go to pokemon tournaments. As long as you act normal and socialise since you have common interest, you will make friends in no time. This boost in confidence may make you reconsider the decisions you make. Being sad is almost an illness, it will always affect your judgement.
Yh, I just can't stress enough how much confidence is needed. It will help you in interviews, friends, love etc.
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"Being sad is almost an illness, it will always affect your judgement"
@Kashmaster that's what clinical depression is...
"Being sad is almost an illness, it will always affect your judgement"
@Kashmaster that's what clinical depression is...
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
Isit? Surely there is a way to snap out of it? There is always a way...
Isit? Surely there is a way to snap out of it? There is always a way...
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
Why interject race in a topic that it has no point? _-_ No religion is better than any other, and I don't want people to argue over this so no more talking about it as it could induce unnecessary arguments.
dmaster out.
EspeonROX said:
Why interject race in a topic that it has no point? _-_ No religion is better than any other, and I don't want people to argue over this so no more talking about it as it could induce unnecessary arguments.
dmaster out.
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
My two cents.
You can't just tell him to "get out" and "make friends". If he hasn't at this point, he probably never will under normal cirsumstances. Here's what I suggest:
Try and get together with others with similar diagnoses. It may be easier to talk to them. I know of one camp, and when I went to it the others seemed a bit different, but none were insulting or anything. This might help because they won't laugh at you, and you won't feel inferior (can't get much lower than going to those things).
The simpler option is, simply just keep talking to people on PokéBeach. You don't need real-life friends if you have other friends. Meeting them in person means absolutely nothing. I know that while I'm rather antisocial I can be quite confident online (there are multiple factors that make it easier than talking in person).
In a few words, don't try to gain confidence, it's not gonna happen, but it isn't everything.
As for education, what they said.
My two cents.
You can't just tell him to "get out" and "make friends". If he hasn't at this point, he probably never will under normal cirsumstances. Here's what I suggest:
Try and get together with others with similar diagnoses. It may be easier to talk to them. I know of one camp, and when I went to it the others seemed a bit different, but none were insulting or anything. This might help because they won't laugh at you, and you won't feel inferior (can't get much lower than going to those things).
The simpler option is, simply just keep talking to people on PokéBeach. You don't need real-life friends if you have other friends. Meeting them in person means absolutely nothing. I know that while I'm rather antisocial I can be quite confident online (there are multiple factors that make it easier than talking in person).
In a few words, don't try to gain confidence, it's not gonna happen, but it isn't everything.
As for education, what they said.
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I wouldn't advise telling him to not have real-life friends, real life human interaction is necessary, even more so if he wants to get better. Going back to high school is never not a good idea, and GED doesn't have to be your only option.
I wouldn't advise telling him to not have real-life friends, real life human interaction is necessary, even more so if he wants to get better. Going back to high school is never not a good idea, and GED doesn't have to be your only option.
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
If he can't get friends and hasn't been able, to, why should he try? And I didn't suggest not having real-life friends--it was only an alternative to if he couldn't find anybody similar to him. I think he's gotten across that real-life human interaction is tough for him, at least at the schools he went to.
If he can't get friends and hasn't been able, to, why should he try? And I didn't suggest not having real-life friends--it was only an alternative to if he couldn't find anybody similar to him. I think he's gotten across that real-life human interaction is tough for him, at least at the schools he went to.
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
Went to hospital last night after i passed out after a head injury
Went to hospital last night after i passed out after a head injury
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
I can't take this anymore ._.
My two Cents ;P
Ok well,it seems like your ruining your life on purpouse.Besides,those people can just drop dead.I mean really why in the world would they do that?First of all say "NO" sometimes and rebel.You can't sit there like a tree stump.You should go to anouther school.Now,of course remember,next time anyone says something just don't stand there.It seems like you have low selfisten.Besides,you never know what will happen.Things turn around.Next time don't take anything that seriously.Just don't get violent.... ._. or you'll get in trouble will everyone.In time you'll get used to laughing at insalts taht mean nothing,just be confident and don't let your dreams be squashed by a bunch of mean hobos.
I can't take this anymore ._.
My two Cents ;P
Ok well,it seems like your ruining your life on purpouse.Besides,those people can just drop dead.I mean really why in the world would they do that?First of all say "NO" sometimes and rebel.You can't sit there like a tree stump.You should go to anouther school.Now,of course remember,next time anyone says something just don't stand there.It seems like you have low selfisten.Besides,you never know what will happen.Things turn around.Next time don't take anything that seriously.Just don't get violent.... ._. or you'll get in trouble will everyone.In time you'll get used to laughing at insalts taht mean nothing,just be confident and don't let your dreams be squashed by a bunch of mean hobos.
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dmaster: It's an example. Settle down. I understand your religious views, so I'm sorry for that comment.
Tombstoner: OK. Confidence? You need confidence if you want to succeed. However, because we are trying to help INFERNAPE out instead of discuss our moral viewpoints, I won't debate about confidence.
Infernape, you've got to see yourself as a person with potential. Everyone has a gift. And I mean EVERYONE. Find what you do best. Interact, whether on the Beach or in-person.
dmaster: It's an example. Settle down. I understand your religious views, so I'm sorry for that comment.
Tombstoner: OK. Confidence? You need confidence if you want to succeed. However, because we are trying to help INFERNAPE out instead of discuss our moral viewpoints, I won't debate about confidence.
Infernape, you've got to see yourself as a person with potential. Everyone has a gift. And I mean EVERYONE. Find what you do best. Interact, whether on the Beach or in-person.
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
Only gift i have is football
Yeah pls no one say turn to religon as i dont have one
Only gift i have is football
Yeah pls no one say turn to religon as i dont have one
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Then there you have it. You have a gift in football. Did you try out for the team? If you do, you can become respected as well as feared if you're really good.
Work at it. Get stronger. Take your anger out in the weight room on a punching bag. Build your strength physically and emotionally. If there is a football league near you, join. If you do well, who knows what will happen?
Then there you have it. You have a gift in football. Did you try out for the team? If you do, you can become respected as well as feared if you're really good.
Work at it. Get stronger. Take your anger out in the weight room on a punching bag. Build your strength physically and emotionally. If there is a football league near you, join. If you do well, who knows what will happen?
J
Juliacoolo
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That's a near perfect talent to help you. Team support will help your self-esteem, tackling can help you unleash your anger in a safe way, joining will make you gain friends, and loving the game will motivate you to make the grades needed to play. Join the football team. Next year.
That's a near perfect talent to help you. Team support will help your self-esteem, tackling can help you unleash your anger in a safe way, joining will make you gain friends, and loving the game will motivate you to make the grades needed to play. Join the football team. Next year.
RE: dropped outta high school now i feel like crud
as a wise dude once said in a show "people need people", if you think that it will never change then your one weird perp. Plus if you go to school (which is the only way to get into American football league and the canadian football league is for talentless shnaub's that couldn't make the NFL, that statement is very true, no offense football is my religion, idc even though it's not deemed as one) and get into the NFL tell me what team your playing on so I can cheer you on man
P.S. with cfl you "have" to work in the off season (that's one of the reason's why cfl is considered a joke to the nfl), with nfl you don't and you have 8 or so months of downtime and vacation, something to think about. if your gift is football beware it's brutal, n awesome, but brutally awesome.
as a wise dude once said in a show "people need people", if you think that it will never change then your one weird perp. Plus if you go to school (which is the only way to get into American football league and the canadian football league is for talentless shnaub's that couldn't make the NFL, that statement is very true, no offense football is my religion, idc even though it's not deemed as one) and get into the NFL tell me what team your playing on so I can cheer you on man
P.S. with cfl you "have" to work in the off season (that's one of the reason's why cfl is considered a joke to the nfl), with nfl you don't and you have 8 or so months of downtime and vacation, something to think about. if your gift is football beware it's brutal, n awesome, but brutally awesome.
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