Dances are meant to be fun. Don't let the stress from dancing deter you from having fun. The last dance I meant too, was a wedding. I dance with my best friend (who is now my GF) and we had a blast. I didn't just dance with her though. I danced with everyone. On those big, fun, dance songs, join a group. You can be silly, goofy, etc., and no one cares. Dances are a great time to spend with someone, so don't let the dancing part ruin it. Just have fun.