Real Friend?

[Gale]

Alright, so I have this friend (Dark Bliss), and I've been giving him deck advice for the past 6 months now, and he wins cities and got 3rd at States because of me. Now, I tell him my deck for states next weekend, and he says "looks good". THEN, he tells another member here (you know who you are) about my deck and what I'm playing in it.

Also, we had plans to ride to states together, now he's going with this other member to a different hotel.

So, tell me, do you think he's a real friend? Should I forgive him, or move on?

 

[Moneyking63]

I don't think the deck thing is a big deal. As long as he was at least a little grateful for your help! He did break some plans though, I know how that can feel, broken plans for someone else. I think he is a freind still, and you should still try to hang out with him and stuff. But he obviosly found some more friends. I think maybe you should look for some more friends to!

 

[GODZILLA]

Don't trust anyone you haven't been around in the internet for over... 3+ months. And I mean, actually talking and what not. Anyway, the TCG is like this. People usually just care about what you're playing and what you're thinking more than anything else. My advice, play the same deck, get a new deck (or simply modify your current one) or confront this person with your own Terminator from the future.

 

[Gale]

He's never greatful for my help, and always claims that HE made the lists.

 

[INFERNAPE]

I think he just got really cocky, becasue he won a few matches, and now he think he's some big hot shot.

My friends go through times were they act like I'm not there friend, and they are mean. But then the next day they are really nice and act like I'm there best friend.

He should have been more gratful though. Becasue if it wasn't for you he would be nowhere...And you know that. He's just trying to act cool and say that he made the deck.

Let him have his little fit, and when he's done he will probally be your friend again.

He's still a friend. Just give him some time.

 

[Moneyking63]

He's never greatful for my help, and always claims that HE made the lists.

Ahh then in that case I COMPLETELY agree with INFERNAPE!

You know this guy in real life right?

If so he is probably still your friend but using you as well. Just give him some time like INFERNAPE said and hopefully he will cool down.

However I would think twice about giving him deck help again!

 

[~Magma King~]

If he stole a deck that good, then claims it as his own, I'd definitely say he isn't your friend. The problem is though, it's hard to stop being somebodys friend the longer that you've liked them :/

 

[INFERNAPE]

However I would think twice about giving him deck help again!

^True. I wouldn't give him anymore deck help....No matter how much he needs it. Becasue you never know...He might just start the whole thing up again.

 

[Starmie]

Forget about this person, one thing I know is people you meet on forums can change personalities instantly not matter how well you think you know them. There are billions of people you can meet in real life so you're better off becoming friends with someone you can actually meet in person.

 

[Togeshroob]

This is is sorta bold, but...

Your "friend" is immature. He tries to make himself look better. He needs that praise to feed on.

Almost everyone goes through this stage. Just give him some space, maybe... not be really close friends with him for a while until he does mature.... If he matures. Don't be mad at him, be understanding.

It's instances like these that show you who your real friends are and are going to be. Try to find someone else or some people that you think would be good, loyal, trustworthy friends. If this "friend" matures and wants to come back to you, then let him. If he goes another way, let him be.


/me continues meditating on a cloud.

 

[GODZILLA]

You can't trust anybody. All human beings have their personal agenda. The person who's your best friend one day could turn around and stab you in the back the next.

 

[Gale]

I've noticed that I'm 100X more mature than most of my friends, but 1,000X more gullible than the average person -_-.

Yeah, he apologized and stuff, but I'm going to give him the silent tratement for a while, and hope that he matures and sees that it's wrong to give someone you know in REAL life's deck, to someone you know online.

Also, I'm not letting him borrow my Gardevoir lv.x for states =P

 

[TofU]

Chris forget Camden.He is a stuck up brat who thinks he is amazing at everything.Plus you have me Jordan and I hate to say this....Adam.Camden really betrayed you not so much as to the deck part but giving away what you were playing and dropping you when you had plans already panned out with him.I would move on....

 

[cappuccino]

You know of all places to put this up, this is so...open. Dark Bliss would probably be seeing this now...

Anyways, it depends on your decision. Stay put with him or just leave him. Yes, he apologized but do you think he did it sincerely? How long have you been putting up to him and do you think all of that has been worth it? Considering

I've noticed that I'm 100X more mature than most of my friends, but 1,000X more gullible than the average person

then I guess you could meet more friends. But if you decided to give dark bliss a chance then see what he does for the next 2 weeks. And make sure he doesn't see this thread.