Trying to get a Girl to like You

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Okay, well, if shes anything like me, this will help.


1)Don't try to be someone else.
I mean come on, Itss practically doomed to fail, and she would probably like the real you better. Im know some kids in my school that are supposed to be popular, play WoW or something, you'll be surprised.

2)Don't worry about your appearance.
It shouldn't matter in the first place. Dont look like a slob, but dont wear a tux either.

3)Join some clubs of hers or something.
But dont join all of them, join the ones you actuall know about. But if you arent good at sports, dont do it.

4)Try to get some info.
Find out what shes interested in, then try to start some conversation if you have something in common.



But personally, I think it would be better if you two become friends, and when you were older, and do the best friends become best-best friends thing.
 
It seems that all girls ever care about in a guy until they're more mature is how funny teh guy is. I swear, girls just like funny guys. Of course, in the later years of middle school and all high school certain other things will matter...
 
grasspokemonmaster said:
Tips:
1. Be interested in the same subject as her (can be one)
2. Try and be popular
3. Get high grades

That's all I know. You can try and if it doesn't work, oh well. It didn't work for me though but that was once. It worked on try 2 with someone else.

Another thing is that you shouldn't get involved at this age. When you get into secondary school, yes, but not right now.
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Get good grades? Really? If that was the case there wouldn't be many of these threads on this site.
 
FROM EXPERIENCE the best friends becoming best-best friends thing does NOT work, and ends up being a BIG waste of time if that's what your main goal with the girl is... Just saying.
 
Galefail said:
When I was 10 I was trying to beat Red on Mt. Silver.

Girls were and still are gross to me.
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THE most epic quote I have ever seen.

Anyways, PDC, don't worry about it man. I mean, sure, you will be all sad, but elementary crushes NEVER amount to anything. Wait until your in like 7th-8th grade, then your eyes start to open. If your one of those annoying poser elementary kids who has a cell phone at age like 2, then get her cell number and "text her cuz omg omg txting is so kool as an elementary kid". Lol. I have kids w/ phones but whatever. Hang in there buddy, just be friends. Cause who knows...you may go to different middle schools but high school rolls around and those old friendships get rebuilt in a flash. TRUST me. In high school everyone is more mature and willing to hang, and if you still like her then, you will have a great shot. My friend Mac+Kim go to separate high schools but have been together since May '08.
 
From my experience Seth1789110 is right. I had one girlfriend in kindergarten(lol I had my first kiss in kindergarten too O_O) but that doesn't really count. Since then I was never really interested in girls until last year I started to open my eyes (I'm currently in eight grade.)
 
grasspokemonmaster said:
Tips:
1. Be interested in the same subject as her (can be one)
2. Try and be popular
3. Get high grades
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Why do girls still like me then? Getting high grades has nothing to do with it, neither being popular. I've seen people who can be classified as ''not popular'' have a girl/boyfriend.

esperante said:
FROM EXPERIENCE the best friends becoming best-best friends thing does NOT work, and ends up being a BIG waste of time if that's what your main goal with the girl is... Just saying.
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I back you up with my experience, I agree it usually doesn't take you anywhere. You have to go for it from the beginning. Becoming better and better friends will also cause a lot, and really a lot of confusion. Because, where's the border of being a best friend and liking(/loving) someone? There's the point where it goes wrong. Trust me, I've experienced it, I'll never make that mistake again.
 
I still stick to my way of thinking that relationships at this age are a big waste of time (as they are definitely temporary and will not last forever) and will distract you from a lot of things. This is your childhood, enjoy it, be like me and take full advantage of being looked after rather than trying to fork out money to shower your girlfriend with gifts which would eventually all go to waste.

If not, read Krucifier's two How to Pick Up Chicks guides.
 
When I was 10 or 9 I liked a girl too. I gave her a flower and said she was adorable to me. And she said I was loser. I was sad. But then i met a new girl who was even paler than the last and it was good. Do not be stress or sad. Keep your chin up. It will be good.
 
Hatedisk, on an offtopic I think maybee you should reconsider your choice for an avatar. The whole swastika thing may offend some people.

On topic, because you're 10 everything works differently. Just don't do anything awkward, start talking and when you think you're ready ask her.

When you're older relationships matter more, and you would have to go about everything a completely different way.
 
Please remember that this is NOT a forum about dating and other relationship issues. >_<
 
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