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Do I ask this girl out?

  • Yes! You definitely should!

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  • No, you don't want to ruin the great friendship you have with her now.

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  • You choose.

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RE: Girlfriend help wanted.

I have learned from too much experience, not only my own, but from also watching my friends. No matter how much you ask other people, you are always going to do what you think is right. My friend asked everybody at school about asking this one girl out and about 9/10 of all the people said he shouldn't have. He went with his gut anyways, and asked her out. They have been going out now for about 8 months. Lucky him. If you think she is ready and you think you yourself is ready for a relationship, go ahead and ask her. If it doesn't work out, well, it doesn't work out. I don't know how old you are, but if you aren't over 65, then there is a pretty good chance you will find someone else.

Also, another thing I have learned from experience, ask your parents. Yes, it may seem so stupid and corny, and dorky, but, if you ask her out and she says yes, then your parents say no, you will not be in a good situation. Just my two cents worth. =D

*puts two pennies in imaginary coin slot*
 
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Spirit of Mew, that was awesome advice. I am going by the majority here, so its up to everyone else for this. Patience is key, like you said.

The next/final dance is on the 29th of May. I asked her early February. Do you think that is enough time?

EDIT: Bubba, excellent advice. Thanks for your help.
 
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That is plenty enough time. Most people normally ask someone to a dance only like two weeks before it happens, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking early.

EDIT: I'm glad you liked my advice... To all people who are probably staring at me now in your minds, yes I'm a guy and I know this stuff lol
 
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Thanks for your advice. I did that with the first dance, in early January.
 
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Ok, this has happened mannnnyyy times before with one of my best friends whos a boy, and the first thing ya gotta do is talk to the girl you like's friends to see if she's in to you. Then, if she might want to go out with you, get her number, aim, ECT and talk to her for awhile. Then, when you think your ready and you know her well enough, THEN ask her.

Coming from a girl herself, that's how me and my friends usually choose to go out with.
 
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Pandamore said:
Ok, this has happened mannnnyyy times before with one of my best friends whos a boy, and the first thing ya gotta do is talk to the girl you like's friends to see if she's in to you. Then, if she might want to go out with you, get her number, aim, ECT and talk to her for awhile. Then, when you think your ready and you know her well enough, THEN ask her.

Coming from a girl herself, that's how me and my friends usually choose to go out with.
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Sarah that's good advice but you have to be careful with that because some people may find it weird that you want to know up front if you are into them. It really depends on the personality.

Also, ShayminSky if you need any advice on anything or just to talk to someone PM me or get me on AIM if I'm online
 
RE: Girlfriend help wanted.

Ok, since a lot of things posted here hafve already happened, I will post it now.

We've known each other since 4th grade(when she came to that school).

We were better friends in 5th grade.

This year, we became better friends than last year. We danced regularly at dances, and hang out with each other. She was the person I first shared my story Jun's Adventure with before anyone else. I already have her AIM. She showed me her story. She obviously knows I like Pokemon and is ok with that. I asked her out in February and she said she didnt want another boyfriend at the time but I was really sweet for asking. My friends say I should I should ask her again, but I am am stuck in the middle. Help would be nice.
 
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Pandamore said:
No...not the GIRL but her FRIENDS
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Lol last time my friend did this I was laughing pretty hard because the friend of the girl he liked that he asked told her. xD she thought he was a stalker.
 
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I don't think you should ask again. That "polite" no basically means don't ask again.
 
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Master of the Shadow said:
Pandamore said:
No...not the GIRL but her FRIENDS
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Lol last time my friend did this I was laughing pretty hard because the friend of the girl he liked that he asked told her. xD she thought he was a stalker.
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We only do that if we feel like messing with them xD
 
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Yeah, that is the problem with asking their friends. And your friends will support you or tell you a lie as a joke.
 
RE: Girlfriend help wanted.

ShayminSky said:
Ok, since a lot of things posted here hafve already happened, I will post it now.

We've known each other since 4th grade(when she came to that school).

We were better friends in 5th grade.

This year, we became better friends than last year. We danced regularly at dances, and hang out with each other. She was the person I first shared my story Jun's Adventure with before anyone else. I already have her AIM. She showed me her story. She obviously knows I like Pokemon and is ok with that. I asked her out in February and she said she didnt want another boyfriend at the time but I was really sweet for asking. My friends say I should I should ask her again, but I am am stuck in the middle. Help would be nice.
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No one can really help you with this much father than making suggestions. You have to decide for yourself if you think you are ready to ask her again and more importantly if you think she is ready to be asked. When asking other people your going to fall into a lot of conflict. This is just one of those things you just have to decide for yourself.
 
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Thanks for that advice. I guess it is. I will try my best to keep this thread open until the next dance and if I ask her, waht she says. After that, I will make this the official Pokebeach BF/GF thread.
 
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Actually, I'd like to point out it is ultimately your choice. Listening to the straight up advice of others can actually mess things up a lot.

It is you and your situation and no one can no it better than you. Do what you feel is best.
 
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Yes, it is I just wanted some guidance on what people think. My friend told me to do it, and at the dance, have a date planned if she says yes.
 
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I will say this if you ask her and she says yes don't try to ask her out on a date right away that would be rushing it way to fast.
 
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Ok, I'll play it by ear then. I have noticed something that is needed in a relationship. People have broken up because of not talking. My friend put it this way:

Why dont you go up and say, "Hey, K---, wanna go out sometime?" and if she says yes. "Cool, I was thinking saturday afternoon at ------ -------."
 
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Communication is key. Why not just "hang out" instead of "go out"? Good friendship first and all that.I mean, what does she like to do?
 
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If she really likes you, she'll say yes. You shouldn't have to ask too many times

I would know because I have a gf :p
 
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