How to be happy

[Noob Sandwich]

listen to really happy music.
you said your emo right? look for other emo people, and talk to them about it.
or as d master said, you could thingy that thingy in a thingy, if you know what I mean

BTW, how old are you, and how old is your girfriend?

Actually according to group polarization, talking with people who have the same opinions as you only intensify the feelings, which would not be a good thing.

You are in a home. You have meals. A family. You live in a free country. You don't live in a war zone. You don't go to sleep hungry every night. You have an education. You have a computer and internet. Your're not risking your life eveyday. Why are you depressed? You have a great life. Many poor, unlucky souls woul do anything to have even a fraction of your life. Be glad that you have a good life and snap out of it.

Being depressed can have more causes (like physiological ones) that can't be fixed with the flip of a switch. If depression could be fixed by just snapping out of it, then it wouldn't be a real disorder. It takes more to get out of depression than simply snapping out of it.

urm why would a knife be your best friend??? They only cause harm and then there really is no point if you self harm

Cutting yourself actually release endorphins, which are your body's natural opiates. They make you feel better, so it's an unfortunate, but understandable reaction from someone who has depression. I'm not saying it's a good thing to do at all, just wanted to mention that that is why some depressed people cut themselves.

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To #1weavile:

I suggest you tell your parents about how you feel and I suggest possibly seeing a psychologist/psychiatrist if things are really bad. At the very least don't listen to the things that most of the people have said in your topic because most of them don't understand the causes of depression and how to deal with it.

 

[#1weavile]

WOW noob sandwich...You read me like a book...You understand how I feel.

Have you ever been emo??

 

[Noob Sandwich]

No; I took Psychology this year and we learned a good deal about certain psychological disorders.

 

[shaymin707]

Noob Sandwhich is the next Dr. Phil, duh

 

[Ka$h Money]

@Noobsandwich I know that pain releases endorphins to counteract the pain recpetors but I am saying that using a knife to self harm yourself is no way to go about life.

You should be grateful that you are alive, not in poverty, not having the struggles of unclean water.

I know a thing or two about Psychology and your problem seems to be that someone or something has hurt you in a severe manner that is now destroying your belief in a meaning for life.


Simply:

If you belong to a religion, your purpose is to serve God's will


If you are atheist then your purpose is to preserver Earth for future generations, including your children

 

[Void]

Simply:

If you belong to a religion, your purpose is to serve God's will


If you are atheist then your purpose is to preserver Earth for future generations, including your children

Irrelevant much?

 

[Ka$h Money]

urm not really since he was acting as though there is no meaning to life so I told him two different perspectives, read ALL the post before writing irrelavent stuff

 

[Joethegreat1]

Thanks for the support, now let this thread die.

How can you say that?!! It's like saying "Thank you for trying to change my life. Now let me continue cutting myself."

Everybody gets depressed. It a natural thing for all human beings. It quite sad that people don't realize all the love directed towards them, how much other people care for them.

A knife shouldn't be any ones best friend.

 

[afstandopleren]

Actually, there are a thousand reasons why depressions are NOT natural IF you aren't born with a certain malfunction.

 

[Charging_Chimchar]

Noob Sandwhich is the next Dr. Phil, duh

Yeeeeuh!! Dr. Noob xD

-CC

 

[blazifan]

Nobody should post here anymore. #1Weavile doesn't really want help, If he did he would be taking these solutions and putting them to use. Cutting yourself and *gulp* suicide are never the answer. These vibes to do harm to yourself are from some bad things. EVERYBODY has a purpose. There is no more anynbody can say. You don't really want help #1Weavile. You are just feeling sorry for yourself and want others to do the same.

EDIT: the only reason you have this problem is because there is no God in your life. You can only be happy if you do what God wants you to do.

 

[#1weavile]

No the reason I'm not posting is because I want this thread to die..

Why bring God into this. I believe in God.

 

[Juliacoolo]

Nobody should post here anymore. #1Weavile doesn't really want help, If he did he would be taking these solutions and putting them to use. Cutting yourself and *gulp* suicide are never the answer. These vibes to do harm to yourself are from some bad things. EVERYBODY has a purpose. There is no more anynbody can say. You don't really want help #1Weavile. You are just feeling sorry for yourself and want others to do the same.

EDIT: the only reason you have this problem is because there is no God in your life. You can only be happy if you do what God wants you to do.

1: How do you know he isn't putting this stuff to use, are you stalking him? And even if he did, or didn't, that's his own personal buisness
2: Why do you assume he is suicidal? I never recall him saying so.
3: Of course he wants advise/help. It's that, or he's trying to increase his postcount, and I highly doubt that.
4: Saying that god is the only way to happyness is extremely rude. Athiests are accepted in this forum, as well as America. Judging by religion is wrong, ESPECIALLY, when he isn't even athiest.

Anyways, to weavile, we watched a movie about it in class. The first step is to talk to your parents, it may seem pointless at first, but if you want to get help. You need to sit down, and have a conversation with your self, and think about what's going on in life, and how you can resolve it.

 

[CCloud]

Nobody should post here anymore. #1Weavile doesn't really want help, If he did he would be taking these solutions and putting them to use. Cutting yourself and *gulp* suicide are never the answer. These vibes to do harm to yourself are from some bad things. EVERYBODY has a purpose. There is no more anynbody can say. You don't really want help #1Weavile. You are just feeling sorry for yourself and want others to do the same.

EDIT: the only reason you have this problem is because there is no God in your life. You can only be happy if you do what God wants you to do.

I was hoping no one would post something like this.

#1weavile, if you don't want this thread being posted in anymore, you can report it to request a Moderator to lock it. I understand how you feel; no one is really helping you out here, aside from Noob Sandwich's great advice, so yeah.

 

[#1weavile]

Nobody should post here anymore. #1Weavile doesn't really want help, If he did he would be taking these solutions and putting them to use. Cutting yourself and *gulp* suicide are never the answer. These vibes to do harm to yourself are from some bad things. EVERYBODY has a purpose. There is no more anynbody can say. You don't really want help #1Weavile. You are just feeling sorry for yourself and want others to do the same.

EDIT: the only reason you have this problem is because there is no God in your life. You can only be happy if you do what God wants you to do.

I was hoping no one would post something like this.

#1weavile, if you don't want this thread being posted in anymore, you can report it to request a Moderator to lock it. I understand how you feel; no one is really helping you out here, aside from Noob Sandwich's great advice, so yeah.

Thanks for the advice

 

[BlackstarBatty]

I'm gonna put my two cents into this before locking it by request of the OP. Is this something that has been going on for quite a while? Or something that just started? Depending on the length of it, it might be just a phase of feeling down, or it could be clinical depression. If I were you, I'd say go to a guidance counselor. As silly as they seem to be, if something serious comes up, they will be willing to help you out. Your parents may be contacted about it, but it might not be as scary talking to him or her first. Good luck to you.