Trying to get a Girl to like You

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Ok.Even though i'm 10....well.....OK I like this Girl Called kalaya and Of coursei have no idea how.I'm a geek...and Shes Popular...but how in the world can i get her to like me???..I like have no people that ever liked me...i really just don't know..agin This is 10 YEAR Old stuff.not teen stuff..HELP!
 
If she's popular and ur not, the best way to go is to be very nice, don't do anything weird, and don't chase after her. I'm assuming since you like her you talk to her, so just be nice. That'll help. It might take some time though.
 
Hm....well iv'e been trying that for awhile..3 months...and this year is it...were going to diffrent middle schools so....Bad for me....+_+
 
You're 10, don't bother. Even if you did get her to like you, you'll just go to different middle schools soon enough, or she'll stop liking you for some stupid elementary school kid reason.

I'm saying this from personal experience! I'm a senior in high school and I still go to school with the girl I liked in 6th grade... I can't stand her now lol.
 
Well....at least i THINK....Hilcrest has Rats....or what i heard....and most of my Friends our going to Maddison....*Urg*..but i'm just trying to get a score...but i scored a decent goal yesterday...
 
http://www.datingish.com/715818217/how-to-start-a-relationship/

Here's my advice for starting a relationship.
 
To be honest you're too young to get into this subject... However, there's nothing wrong with talking and just hanging out with her from time to time. Now don't think that once you hit middle school it ends, you could very well get at least her email address and stay in contact over the years. Just talk and act totally normal and see what happens along the line.

And a little warning: If you think about her too much you'll get yourself sick. Trust me I've experienced it. So when you're not able to see her just do your best to keep your thoughts about her to a minimum
 
lol, wish I could help ya out there, but I dont even remember what was attractive to me when I was 10 XP

I was more of a, "don't touch me you have cooties kinda girl" lol
 
o_O

when i was ten...whats that...4th grade for me.

lets see...only thing i was interested in was being the smartest in the 4th grade class (entire school), and being able to slack off in class because of this. lol
 
If you are 10 years old, you'll probably be over it within a week or two. Hang in there!

Deepest Regards,

Myles
 
When I was 10 I was trying to beat Red on Mt. Silver.

Girls were and still are gross to me. What Myles said. If you for some reason don't get over it in 2 weeks, tell her about it, and I'm sure you'll have a nice long-lasting relationship. For 2 more weeks.

Yeah, it's not even worth it. In a few years you'll be in a better position for a relationship. Enjoy being a kid while you can. Trust me, if you don't, you'll regret it.
 
I would say keep talking to her, by any means possible. E-mail or whatever. Don't come on too strong or be annoying, that's the worst and in then in 3-5 years ask her out. Life isn't that simple and the situation might be different in your life at a later time, but that's the rough idea. Also get a car, it will help. you don't want to have your friends or parents driving you around all the time, once and awhile is ok. Also when you ask her out (assuming that you do) keep it simple and don't go to the movies. Movies kill conversation and you don't want that hour and a half to two hours of awkward silence, go mini-golfing or something where you can talk. Above all be confident in yourself and don't be afraid/nervous as much as possible. Women sense that like sharks smell blood in the water. Hope this helps.

-GOON
 
Eevee Freak said:
And a little warning: If you think about her too much you'll get yourself sick. Trust me I've experienced it. So when you're not able to see her just do your best to keep your thoughts about her to a minimum
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Better call it a big warning, I've experienced it once already, this time I get the feeling I'm going towards that period again. Anyway I experienced what it was so I'm trying to prevent it now.

I know it sounds really weird, but you can get really depressive/sick when thinking of a girl and not being able to see her, I went to that period with my ''ex''-girlfriend (at the end there wasn't much of a relation, but whatever...). Anyway, the girl I now like lives pretty far away, so we can't see eachother every week. Atm see doesn't feel very well, and she has been sick for already 5 days now... I think she has the same problem, and it's not a nice feeling. So be aware of that.

Further, you're pretty young, but I think you know that too. And there's nothing wrong with trying, so just be nice to her, don't annoy her and see what happens.
 
Hmm, when I was 10, I did have one girl I liked...Never told her though. She moved to a different school and I've never seen her since. My advice: don't worry about it.

dmaster out.
 
good luck bro it all in your head so lots of confedince if she say now blow it offmake it look like she just lost some wicked.
 
My advice:
Wait until you're older. I decided to wait until I was at least in college, becuase a lot of things happen until you're 18 that would disrupt a relationship. Those would be changing schools, moving to a different state or city, puberty, having a change in personality/and or interests, etc.
I sugest you wait until you're at least out of high school, becuase when you're a teenager, your thoughts and emotions will be somewhat unstable during that time. I would also segust that as you get older, find your purpose in life. This is what helped me focus when I was a teenager, cuz relationships would've just distracted me =P
 
It really ALL and I repeat ALL depends on what type of guy she likes. And even though I know you really like her, remember that this is not "super serious love' that results in marriage, " so don't be obsessed with this girl. However, I know how important it feels for young people who are in love (yes, I'm young too, but anyway...: P), so I’ll give some tips.

1. Do not and I am saying "DO NOT TALK TO HER ABOUT STAR WARS," or even Pokemon for that matter if you don't know whether she's interested in that kind of stuff.
You can find out if she is by asking her in a somewhat less crowded place where her best friends of clique group are not around. Don't ask this question immediately, first, you must build a casual conversation starting with either a "Hi, how are you" or "today's pretty cool, huh?" It doesn't necessarily need to be started with those two sentences but at least nothing that involves the things she dislikes or simply isn't interested in.

2. DO NOT COMPLIMENT her OUTFITS. V_V
Ok, so the reason why I say so is because even though girls are ten, most of the time they act like 15 and by that they know many things about boys being girly and will immediately judge them as "well...'gei'"
It's true! So if you wanna compliment on something, it better not be her dress or skirt. But you can say, "Cool outfit." Again, do this with the proper conversation start.

3. Make yourself popular. Join a cool club that involves clean yet social events such as, sports, music, and etc. No, you may not join the galatics.

4. Primp up and shape up. Girls (that are pretty) mostly like cute, well-shaped, and handsome guys that are not too skinny and not too plump (although some girls rarely like robust guys, it's like what I said...rarely). By doing number 3, you will get a good figure if you join a sport club, depending on what kind of sport you prefer.

5. Be more social. The more people you are linked to, the more chance you have to talk to Kalaya.

I don't know much about young relationships, but I know as much as wanting these types of guys and how I want them to treat me.

After you have done all the above, slowly start becoming closer friends ad finally ask whether she might like hanging out some time, this way, she will get to know you better and might start liking you. Make her fall. :)
 
Tips:
1. Be interested in the same subject as her (can be one)
2. Try and be popular
3. Get high grades

That's all I know. You can try and if it doesn't work, oh well. It didn't work for me though but that was once. It worked on try 2 with someone else.

Another thing is that you shouldn't get involved at this age. When you get into secondary school, yes, but not right now.
 
Your taste in people will mature along with you. I don't see why so many kids decide to put themselves through getting in a "relationship" at a young age. It can just make things so stressful. Things like that are better kept as friends until you're older, IMO. Nine chances out of ten you won't like the person in a few years.

This is all up to you, if you plan to pursue this. But I would just wait until you're older.

A few little tips for the future:

1) Girls usually won't tell you they like you. You've got to put the moves on. Not cheesy pick up lines, but have regular conversations and build a friendship first. Then see where it goes.

2) If you act shy, desperate, or like a complete jerk - most girls don't desire this. Being confident in yourself will make a world of a difference when it comes to relationships.

3) Take pride in yourself and your appearance.

4) Use your brain when you talk. If you seem awkward, too geeky or like you lack intelligence, this can be a turn off.

5) As kawaii_Mew said, different girls will like different types of guys. Keep this in mind.
 
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