LuckyPokeGirl, usually people on the chatroom can be nice, but it relates to how they view you on the forums. You're young and foolish (no offense meant) so that probably reflects how they respond to you.
(You can also log in and just not say anything as well. I am actually on the chat right now, so if you wish to talk with me in real time, reply on my wall and I'll tell you what to do.)