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afstandopleren said:
Good point. You pay them money to send you to jail.
More seriously, it's best to just go with the flow, and just shrug it off, or just smile and say whatever. Bullies don't get much out of that.
Fights in school.
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Good point. You pay them money to send you to jail.
More seriously, it's best to just go with the flow, and just shrug it off, or just smile and say whatever. Bullies don't get much out of that.
Yeah, that's easy for you to say; you're 14! *has no idea what you're talking about*Juliacoolo said:
I also don't know what the 'You pay them' part means. Please elaborate.
42 chocolate said:
Yes the police can't do nothing
Guys. Hate is cake. If any of you try to have some sort of revolation saying that "Hm, maby I shouldn't have hurt them" Your wrong. There's only two ways to solve your problems.
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Setzer (Harry) said:Guys. Hate is cake. If any of you try to have some sort of revolation saying that "Hm, maby I shouldn't have hurt them" Your wrong. There's only two ways to solve your problems.
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What a mighty fine example of the causes of continued hate that we were trying to explain.
Only a few days ago, I beat up my friend and nearly got suspended from school. Annoying people really get me angry. Then I get violent.
Everyone should understand that any bully is human. We all have weakness. He has probably had a terrible life, probably with terrible family problems. This would lead to insecurity and the thought of violence to get what you want. Bullies are such sad people and more help than anyone.
Violence never solves a problem. Ever. If I ever get punched, I never punch back. I try my best to guard myself or dodge his blows. I am usually never picked on (mostly because I am tall and built like an ox), but I can't stand to see injustice. I try to shield the person being picked on.
Violence never solves a problem. Ever. If I ever get punched, I never punch back. I try my best to guard myself or dodge his blows. I am usually never picked on (mostly because I am tall and built like an ox), but I can't stand to see injustice. I try to shield the person being picked on.
This one kid kept calling me g@y, so I started saying good job sarcastically when he missed in basketball. So he told me lets go and slammed into me, and I told him I didn't want to get in trouble and walked away. Sometimes, that is the best thing to do.
I am really tall, and strong, i do weighlifting for P.E. and this little 5" 8" kid always says stuff about me. And i really don't care about people saying stuff about me, if they are true. But when people start spreading lies, then they get up in my face, then i just tell them punch me and i will fight you back, but if you don't then don't talk crap about me or my friends. Usually they back off, if they don't then the other guys in weight lifting breaks us up which is usually for the best. I need to learn to control my anger, but it is messed up to talk about people when they did absolutley nothing to you, or to talk about there family. Word of advice- Never talk bad about anyone's family. if you do, then you deserve the beating you might get.Joethegreat1 said:
The only fights that should occur in school are organized fights, such as in a kendo club, wrestling, boxing, kick-boxing, fencing, etc.
All other unorganized fights are pointless and will lead to people getting in trouble. That's not to say that you shouldn't fight for solving a dispute, but people really shouldn't fight to solve an intellectual dispute. People should only fight in order to prove who is better at fighting, and if they do, it should be an organized fight with rules, so they won't get in trouble.
All other unorganized fights are pointless and will lead to people getting in trouble. That's not to say that you shouldn't fight for solving a dispute, but people really shouldn't fight to solve an intellectual dispute. People should only fight in order to prove who is better at fighting, and if they do, it should be an organized fight with rules, so they won't get in trouble.
*Generic bragging about how I'm so cool because I can fight.*
Ahhh, I feel much better now. Anyway whenever people say bad things about me I defend myself (coughbeatthecrapouttasmallerpeoplecough) because it's ok if they did something first. I find the smartest and most civilized option is to go right to the fighting after they say anything bad about me.
Ahhh, I feel much better now. Anyway whenever people say bad things about me I defend myself (coughbeatthecrapouttasmallerpeoplecough) because it's ok if they did something first. I find the smartest and most civilized option is to go right to the fighting after they say anything bad about me.
WailmerMan said:
Are you being sarcastic, or honest...?
Because if you're being honest... just wow. You think the smartest most civilized option is to go right to fighting? That sickens me, that people would beat the crud out of each other just because someone was possibly joking. And if you're tough, you should be able to handle bad things being said about you in a clean, less violent way. I am weak and hurt easily, if someone hits me, I can take it without fighting back. If it gets out of hand, I will politely ask them to stop. Most of the time they will. If it continues, I will fight back, but I will attempt to only use self-defensive methods.
Nah it was sarcasm. Some people at my school actually think like that. Like I sit down and talk to them and that's really their opinion.
I honestly don't get you guys? Are you scared to defend yourself?
Apparantly most are... Even though I'm a very calm person and don't get angry fast. I really can't stand if someone's annoying me that long and much, and totally not if someone beats me. I can understand why people won't do it, but hey there must be some point someone's crossing the border? And sometimes it's just necessary, talking won't always help :/kashmaster said:
What? No.
The thing is, fighting back is not considered self-defense. At some points, yes, it may be necessary, but if it is possible, it is better to settle the argument in a more civilized and less aggressive manner.
The thing is, fighting back is not considered self-defense. At some points, yes, it may be necessary, but if it is possible, it is better to settle the argument in a more civilized and less aggressive manner.